From talking with my friends and from my own experience, a lot of guys don't like wearing condoms. Why is that? I just started seeing a new guy. He doesn't want to wear a condom. How do I make him wear a condom?
Practicing safe sex is a non-negotiable. If you want to be safe, your partner must comply or you simply don't have sex with him. I know that is not fun when you are excited about sleeping with a new guy, but it could be a matter of life and death. If a guy is not willing to respect your wishes when it comes to practicing safe sex, he may not respect you in other ways. I know there are a lot of guys who don't like wearing condoms
. Some guys simply may be selfish while other guys may not have tried enough condoms
to know what type works best for them. If a guy is wearing a condom that is too small, it could be uncomfortable for him and make him think that all condoms are uncomfortable. If you don't use lubricant, it might be uncomfortable for both of you. You might suggest he try LifeStyles Skyn condoms
. They are thin and soft and carry the slogan, "feels like you are wearing nothing at all".
Although there is no way to make him wear a condom, you can request that he does and if he doesn't want to, he doesn't get to have fun with you. Better yet, you could pick up a pack yourself when you are ready to have sex with your new guy. If he knows that sex is about to happen (but only if he wears a condom), he might be more inclined to wear one.
Always stand your ground when it comes to safer sex and make him wear a condom.
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